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I?m really excited to have Madison Young teaching at Babeland in a couple of weeks!� Madison is one of our most favorite porn stars, an award winning director, published writer, sexual educator and founder of Femina Potens Art Gallery (a non profit art gallery and performance space that serves the LGBTQ and Kink communities).� She is coming to teach Deep Throating here at the Seattle store on September 12th. Our Fellatio class is always one of our most popular classes, usually selling out at least a week in advance.� There is always a deep throating section to our BJ classes, but we tend to only cover a few exercises and some position suggestions to get deeper.� All in all, it is something most of the people in the class want to know about and now we get to learn from a true Deep Throating expert!� I recently got to chat with her about her upcoming class and here is what she shared.Audrey McManus: Hi Madison, we are really excited to have you teach here at the Seattle store. Do you come to Seattle often?Madison Young: I used to come to Seattle all the time.� My partner, James Mogul, used to live there.� For awhile it was my second home.� I've been traveling up to Seattle for work for several years working for House of Gord, Lydia Mc Lane, and at the time Nawashibari - James' old site.� Several of my favorite spots seem to have disappeared in Seattle.� I used to love going to The Globe which was this really great vegan restaurant in Capitol Hill.� I always love stopping by The Center for Sex Positive Culture and poking in the galleries around Pioneer Square.� I'm sure I'll stop by Machiavelli's and� Cafe Septieme.� Have a lot of great memories at those places.AM: Bad news, Cafe Septieme closed this year.� I know a lot of folks miss The Globe too.� You should check out Sage Caf� and Plumb Bistro this time around though. Both are vegan restaurants on Capitol Hill and both are delish!So on to your upcoming class? Can you give us a bit of a teaser of some of the topics you are going to cover?MY: I go over anatomy, pleasure points, hand and mouth techniques as well as focus on deep throating techniques.� Our audience will learn how to open their throat, relax their throat muscles and use their entire mouth and throat to pleasure their partner.� I'll have a demo bottom in which I'll demonstrate different techniques for our participants to practice at home.AM: One of the questions I get a lot in our regular BJ class is about tearing up when the cock gets too deep in the throat. I always think of that as a hot and sexy thing, but a lot of women don?t.� Are you going to cover some tips for how to avoid the tears, or how to work with them and learn to love them?MY: I try to teach all the participants that our fluids are our friends. Saliva and watering eyes and are a product of us letting go and our bodies reacting naturally and beautifully to our primal pleasure sharing with our partner/s.AM: I have heard of tips for swallowing while the cock is in your throat to give extra sensation on the penis.� I have yet to be able to master such a technique.� Do you have tips for doing things such as this that you will be sharing in the class?MY: We will be reviewing how to use your throat muscles to stimulate the penis.� I call this "throat kegels".� Its really about controlling your gag reflex and isolating your throat muscles.� Its easier to practice with out anything in your throat this kind of muscle isolation.� Then I suggest practicing with a dildo.� My favorite to practice oral sex on is the vixskin dildos.AM: Were you always good at deep throating (i.e. not a very sensitive gag reflex) or did you have to work at it to do it so well?MY: I've always had an oral fixation and have been able to relax my mouth and throat muscles fairly easily but it did take some practice.AM: What movies are you in with a deep throating scene that you love?� Something that would inspire more deep throating perhaps?MY: In Good Releasing's Nostalgia directed by Courtney Trouble I play Linda Lovelace and do an entire homage to Deep Throat.� Also in several of the films I've directed including Writers and Rock Stars, Thin Line Between Art & Sex, and The Curse of Mac Beth are all great deep throating films.� In the Curse of Mac Beth you get to watch me recite Shakespeare and deep throat James Mogul's cock at the same time :)AM: Oh wow!� I can?t believe I have not seen The Curse of Mac Beth yet.� I know what I?m doing this weekend : )I often hear from female customers with male partners that they feel a BJ is an obligation and not something they love.� I can understand there are power dynamics at play for some couples regarding submission or feeling degraded with this activity, but how can people overcome that so they can love sucking cock (deep throating or otherwise?).MY: One of the first things I discuss in my class is visualization.� Your desire to consume your partner and to pleasure your partner is just as important (if not more) than any of the techniques that you will learn.� You need to visualize that your partners cock is the most delicious desirable thing that you have ever seen or tasted in your life.� Oral sex or any kind of sex is an exchange of energy.� That energy exchange can or can not involve power exchange depending on the couples desires.� Oral sex and deep throating is just another way to exchange pleasurable energy and breath with your partner.� It?s always nice to have additional techniques and toys in your mental toy box when it comes to sex.AM: Do you have any homework that we can practice to get ready for the class?MY: Drop by Babeland and pick up a Vixskin dildo and start practicing.� Allow your mouth to explore and consume every inch of the dildo.� Do this and you'll have a great head start on everyone in the class.AM: That's how I trained to teach the BJ class you know, I practiced with the Goodfella!Thanks so much for taking the time to chat with me.� I can?t wait to meet you in person and to learn some new tips and tricks!86_1909651_13471-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300">MY: I try to teach all the participants that our fluids are our friends. Saliva and watering eyes and are a product of us letting go and our bodies reacting naturally and beautifully to our primal pleasure sharing with our partner/s.AM: I have heard of tips for swallowing while the cock is in your throat to give extra sensation on the penis.� I have yet to be able to master such a technique.� Do you have tips for doing things such as this that you will be sharing in the class?MY: We will be reviewing how to use your throat muscles to stimulate the penis.� I call this "throat kegels".� Its really about controlling your gag reflex and isolating your throat muscles.� Its easier to practice with out anything in your throat this kind of muscle isolation.� Then I suggest practicing with a dildo.� My favorite to practice oral sex on is the vixskin dildos.AM: Were you always good at deep throating (i.e. not a very sensitive gag reflex) or did you have to work at it to do it so well?MY: I've always had an oral fixation and have been able to relax my mouth and throat muscles fairly easily but it did take some practice.AM: What movies are you in with a deep throating scene that you love?� Something that would inspire more deep throating perhaps?MY: In Good Releasing's Nostalgia directed by Courtney Trouble I play Linda Lovelace and do an entire homage to Deep Throat.� Also in several of the films I've directed including Writers and Rock Stars, Thin Line Between Art & Sex, and The Curse of Mac Beth are all great deep throating films.� In the Curse of Mac Beth you get to watch me recite Shakespeare and deep throat James Mogul's cock at the same time :)AM: Oh wow!� I can?t believe I have not seen The Curse of Mac Beth yet.� I know what I?m doing this weekend : )I often hear from female customers with male partners that they feel a BJ is an obligation and not something they love.� I can understand there are power dynamics at play for some couples regarding submission or feeling degraded with this activity, but how can people overcome that so they can love sucking cock (deep throating or otherwise?).MY: One of the first things I discuss in my class is visualization.� Your desire to consume your partner and to pleasure your partner is just as important (if not more) than any of the techniques that you will learn.� You need to visualize that your partners cock is the most delicious desirable thing that you have ever seen or tasted in your life.� Oral sex or any kind of sex is an exchange of energy.� That energy exchange can or can not involve power exchange depending on the couples desires.� Oral sex and deep throating is just another way to exchange pleasurable energy and breath with your partner.� It?s always nice to have additional techniques and toys in your mental toy box when it comes to sex.AM: Do you have any homework that we can practice to get ready for the class?MY: Drop by Babeland and pick up a Vixskin dildo and start practicing.� Allow your mouth to explore and consume every inch of the dildo.� Do this and you'll have a great head start on everyone in the class.AM: That's how I trained to teach the BJ class you know, I practiced with the Goodfella!Thanks so much for taking the time to chat with me.� I can?t wait to meet you in person and to learn some new tips and tricks!