Exploring the Best Sex Toys for Penis Owners: 6 Types You Need to Know
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When it comes to sex toys, there has never been a better time for people with a penis than right now!
There’s a plethora of pleasure for your peen out there, so much so that it can become a bit overwhelming. No need to worry, though! We’ll take you through the basics of penile sex toys, so whether you’re looking to level up your spank sessions or spice up your playtime, we have you covered.
6 Types of Sex Toys for Penis Owners
Here are the six main types of toys you’ll find on your sexy adventures.
Masturbation Sleeves & Strokers
Masturbation sleeves and strokers are a type of textured tubular toy that you insert your penis in for added sensation when stroking. Some are open-ended, giving your tip room to breathe or be played with, while others have a closed end to create suction.
Sleeves and strokers come in all shapes and sizes, ranging from textured silicone tubes to NASA levels of technology.
Our Recommendations
Lelo F1 - The Lelo F1 may be a bit on the pricy side, but it is worth every penny. Built from quality materials like aluminum alloy and silicone, the F1 uses cutting-edge tech to give you an eye-rolling orgasm. Connect to the Bluetooth app and let the advanced sensors take you on the ride of your life. Enjoy a wide range of vibration settings while getting real-time feedback on your performance. The F1 is perfect for techies and folks with a phallus who want the best.
Good Head Sleeve Mini Stroker - The perfect entry into the world of masturbation sleeves. Made from phthalate-free elastomer with a nubby texture inside, this little guy packs a punch. Its small size makes it great for discreet travel and the open ends perfect for adding to blowjobs for some extra kick.
Fleshlights - The undisputed heavyweight champ of masturbation sleeves, Fleshlights are available in an astounding range of styles and textures. Each comes with a unique interior made of proprietary SuperSkin material that feels real. The plastic casing also helps provide insane suction. You do need to take extra care with cleaning it regularly, but it is worth it.
How to Use Masturbation Sleeves
Aside from advanced, app-based sleeves like the F1, using a stroker is as simple as can be.
When you want to use your stroker, lube up the inside with a material-safe lubricant (water-based is usually a safe bet) and your penis. Slide on into the sleeve, grip the outside, and go to town.
You can also stuff your sleeve in some cushions or in a piece of sex furniture, like this Fleshlight mount for more of a humping action.
Once you’re done, clean everything off and put it away for next time. Here’s Babeland’s guide on how to properly clean your sex toys.
Cock Rings
Cock rings help you stay harder and last longer, and they can be as simple as a silicone circle or add some extra buzz to your bedroom. Check out our recommendations below, because if you love it, you should put a ring on it.
Our Recommendations
Link Up Soft Ring Set - If you’re new to Cock Rings, this is a great place to start. The set comes with three different-sized rings so you can find that perfect fit. Each ring is made of Ultra-Soft silicone and features a spiral texture for a little something extra.
We-Vibe Pivot - Like the NOS above, this is also a vibrating cock ring but with some noticeable differences. For one, the shape of the vibrator is more flat. That will still work great for clit stimulation, but feels applicable to more situations. The Pivot also comes with We-Vibe app connectivity for hands-free control and long-distance romance.
How to Use a Cock Ring
Cock rings are exactly what they sound like: a ring for your cock.
Using lubricant, slide the ring down your shaft to the base, where it should sit with a comfortably snug fit. This constricts blood flow, helping you maintain a harder erection for longer. Make sure not to use one that is too tight or use it for too long (watch out for warning signs like numbness or pain), or that lack of blood pumping will cause some serious problems for your little buddy.
Penis Pumps
No matter who you are, if you have a penis, you might need some help getting pumped up - or may just simply enjoy the benefits of some extra pump action!
Penis Pumps have been around forever and have helped millions of people get bigger and harder. These work by creating a vacuum that forces blood into your shaft, filling it up and making it grow. You’ll look like your love muscle has been hitting the gym, but this is only temporary. Just break out that pump whenever you need a little extra oomph.
Our Recommendations
Renegade Man Up - Bringing the penis pump into the 21st century is the Renegade Man Up automated pump. No more repeatedly squeezing a ball, this bad boy does all the work for you. Powered by two AAA batteries, the Man Up provides powerful suction that makes your ween grow like a weed. Despite the name, this is perfect for all of you ladies packing heat, too.
Trans Masc Pump 2.0 - Here’s a great option for all you dudes, non-binary friends, and anyone with brand-spankin’ new penises / bottom growth. This is very similar to a classic pump but built for anatomy 3” and under. It won’t permanently change anything, but the Trans Masc Pump 2.0 will give you some extra firepower when you want it.
How to Use a Penis Pump
Place your penis inside the tube, making sure the opening is flush with your body. That will ensure a good seal to create suction. Pump away, and once you’ve reached your desired level of hardness (don’t push it too hard) you can remove the device. We also recommend pairing the pump with a cock ring for even longer-lasting results.
Prostate Massagers
If you have a prostate and haven’t played with prostate massagers, you are missing out.
The prostate is a small gland that you can access through the anus. Stimulating the prostate can give you that full-body shaking, eye-rolling, showstopper orgasm. Many people can climax through prostate stimulation only. If that sounds good to you, then check these prostate massagers out.
Our Recommendations
We-Vibe Vector+ - While the Vector+ looks like an unassuming prostate massager, there are limitless ways to enjoy it. Connecting the Vector+ to the We-Vibe app puts you in total control. You can customize vibration patterns, have it follow the beats of a song, or just react to the ambient noise in the room. You can even have a friend far away take the reins for some long-distance loving.
Lelo Loki Wave - Get ready for some booty magic with this vibe. With 10 vibration settings, dual motors for your prostate and perineum, and intuitive controls, the Lelo Loki Wave is a stellar prostate massager. Coated in body-safe silicone, this butt buzzer is a worthwhile investment for anyone looking to explore their back door.
Playboy Trust the Trust - Playboy’s Trust the Thrust is a perfect mix of a prostate massager and a butt plug but with one standout feature. This anal toy not only vibrates, but it actually thrusts inside you, playing your p-spot like a violin. It might not be as customizable as other options, but we do indeed trust the thrust.
How to Use a Prostate Massager
First of all, relax and ease into things slowly. You don’t need to go full-bore right away. Adequately lube up your anus and your toy. Gently insert the toy inside yourself until you feel it hitting the prostate, about 2” deep toward the front of your body. Play with yourself and be mindful of how it feels. Prostate toys aren’t for everyone and may feel weird at first, but when it works, man, does it work.
For more on p-spot play and prostate massage, check out the Babe Blog here: Prostate 101.
Extension Sleeves
Extension sleeves are an easy way to add some length and girth to your penis. Think of it like adding lifts to your shoes. Those extra few inches can make a world of difference.
Our Recommendations
Fat Boy Ultra Fat - It isn’t always about the length, sometimes you need to add girth, and the Fat Boy has you covered. This SilaSkin extender adds an inch of girth with a textured inside for extra excitement. The soft ring at the bottom of your testicles lets you go to town while keeping Fat Boy firmly in place.
Silicone 2” Penis Extender - This penis extender is for when you just want a little something extra. The mesh cage lets you feel everything while the slightly bent tip adds more stimulation for your partner. There are even small ridges on the shaft for even more excitement. This is a perfect fit for anyone looking to enhance their natural gifts.
How to Use an Extension Sleeve
Lube the inside up a bit with a material-safe lube and insert yourself into the sleeve. Put your testicles through the support strap so the strap sits comfortably around the base of your scrotum. Now, apply lube to the outside and enjoy yourself.
Butt Plugs
We’re going back to the booty with butt plugs, a fun and easy way to stimulate your prostate.
Butt plugs are a bit different from prostate massagers. Massagers are usually manipulated manually to stimulate the prostate. Plugs just go on in and stay put while you have fun. The bulbous shape keeps it in place with consistent pressure on the p-spot. This can greatly enhance orgasms and add more pleasure to other activities.
Our Recommendations
The One Plug Set - The One Plug Set is an excellent place for beginners. You can work your way up from small, to medium, to large and find what feels good to you. Each silicone plug is tapered for easy insertion with a wide, flat base at the bottom to keep your plug from slipping in too far.
Fun Factory Bootie Silicone Plug - Another great pick for newbies, this soft silicone plug is a nice mashup of a plug and a prostate massager. Instead of the basic tapered shape, we have a more bulbous, curved end. This will hit your prostate with precision while the thin base fits perfectly between your cheeks for maximum security.
How to Use a Butt Plug
Thankfully, butt plugs are super beginner-friendly. Relax and lubricate your anus along with the body of the plug. Slowly insert the butt plug until it is in and securely in place. The base or handle should sit comfortably outside of your anus.
Now you can go do whatever you want. A huge benefit to butt plugs is how discreet they can be. So, use them during sex, while masturbating, or running errands. Your call.
Fun for Folks with a Phallus
As you can see, there are so many different ways for you and your penis to spice things up with penile sex toys!
Take a look through our site and see what piques your interest, because everyone deserves a great sex toy, no matter what equipment they’re working with.
