Dear Babeland friends,
I have a question for you.� Why is it that our Fellatio or How To Please Your Man classes sell out just about every month (yes we tend to have 1 a month) and our Cunnilingus or How To Please Your Woman classes only get a handful of attendees the 2 times we hold it a year?� We have a She Comes First class scheduled in Seattle for this Sunday, and it is looking to be a small turn out for the event while our Fellatio class at the end of the month is almost sold out already.I talk about sex a lot.� Not only at work, but wherever I go, somehow I out myself as working at Babeland and get a flurry of sex questions.� This happens at the deli counter at the grocery store; the hair salon; waiters at restaurants; when dropping off my car to be fixed; on airplanes (always on airplanes); at parties; and recently I was in Paris and the table next to us hearing our American accents asked where we were from and after saying Seattle we chatted enough for me to say that I worked here and BAM ? the table of guys had lots of sex questions for me.Basically, I?m talking to more than just the Babeland customers here.� I have never had a guy tell me that his girlfriend or wife wasn?t good at giving a BJ.� Usually guys are asking for sex tips for their gal, or relationship advice (which I try not to dole out) and occasionally questions on how to get her in the mood or that she doesn?t seem to like sex or have time for sex and how can he help change that.� On the other hand, women will often confess that their guy is a bit clueless when he heads downtown.� It might be that they have no idea how to use their fingers in a pleasing way; or he is asking if she is done 4 minutes after he starts; or his technique is clearly spelling out the alphabet with the tip of his tongue.The point being, those ladies are lacking this good loving from their partners, but their partners don?t seem to think they need the lesson.� On the flip side, the guys seem to be well taken care of in this department but their gals still flock to the classes.� Is the reason that guys needs in the southern hemisphere are well attended to because women are eager to learn more on this topic, talk about it a lot and take classes and lessons?� Maybe so.� If guys followed the lead of their lady lovers and took a class on tongue tricks to tickle her fancy, then maybe the reverse would be true for the gals.Here is the other thing I think is interesting to note:� while we get about 40 women a month attending the male pleasure classes on their own or with groups of friends, the female pleasure classes are only about half full and they are mostly couples.� So the ladies are escorting their guys to the classes.� This is great and all.� Both classes actually have tons info for both the giver and the receiver, but why is it women are comfortable attending a sex class sans partner, but the reverse is not true?
We have tried to switch up the topics to get more guys to the classes over the years: Pussy Pleasure; Cunnilingus; Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men; How to Please Your Woman; and most recently with the help of Ian Kerner and his best selling book, She Comes First, we developed an all new class on oral sex by a man for men.� Still, it?s not drawing the crowds.Guys ? why are you not taking the classes?� What would you attend?� Ladies, do your guys need a class?� Do you want them to attend the classes we offer?t taking the classes?� What would you attend?� Ladies, do your guys need a class?� Do you want them to attend the classes we offer?
I have a question for you.� Why is it that our Fellatio or How To Please Your Man classes sell out just about every month (yes we tend to have 1 a month) and our Cunnilingus or How To Please Your Woman classes only get a handful of attendees the 2 times we hold it a year?� We have a She Comes First class scheduled in Seattle for this Sunday, and it is looking to be a small turn out for the event while our Fellatio class at the end of the month is almost sold out already.I talk about sex a lot.� Not only at work, but wherever I go, somehow I out myself as working at Babeland and get a flurry of sex questions.� This happens at the deli counter at the grocery store; the hair salon; waiters at restaurants; when dropping off my car to be fixed; on airplanes (always on airplanes); at parties; and recently I was in Paris and the table next to us hearing our American accents asked where we were from and after saying Seattle we chatted enough for me to say that I worked here and BAM ? the table of guys had lots of sex questions for me.Basically, I?m talking to more than just the Babeland customers here.� I have never had a guy tell me that his girlfriend or wife wasn?t good at giving a BJ.� Usually guys are asking for sex tips for their gal, or relationship advice (which I try not to dole out) and occasionally questions on how to get her in the mood or that she doesn?t seem to like sex or have time for sex and how can he help change that.� On the other hand, women will often confess that their guy is a bit clueless when he heads downtown.� It might be that they have no idea how to use their fingers in a pleasing way; or he is asking if she is done 4 minutes after he starts; or his technique is clearly spelling out the alphabet with the tip of his tongue.The point being, those ladies are lacking this good loving from their partners, but their partners don?t seem to think they need the lesson.� On the flip side, the guys seem to be well taken care of in this department but their gals still flock to the classes.� Is the reason that guys needs in the southern hemisphere are well attended to because women are eager to learn more on this topic, talk about it a lot and take classes and lessons?� Maybe so.� If guys followed the lead of their lady lovers and took a class on tongue tricks to tickle her fancy, then maybe the reverse would be true for the gals.Here is the other thing I think is interesting to note:� while we get about 40 women a month attending the male pleasure classes on their own or with groups of friends, the female pleasure classes are only about half full and they are mostly couples.� So the ladies are escorting their guys to the classes.� This is great and all.� Both classes actually have tons info for both the giver and the receiver, but why is it women are comfortable attending a sex class sans partner, but the reverse is not true?We have tried to switch up the topics to get more guys to the classes over the years: Pussy Pleasure; Cunnilingus; Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men; How to Please Your Woman; and most recently with the help of Ian Kerner and his best selling book, She Comes First, we developed an all new class on oral sex by a man for men.� Still, it?s not drawing the crowds.Guys ? why are you not taking the classes?� What would you attend?� Ladies, do your guys need a class?� Do you want them to attend the classes we offer?t taking the classes?� What would you attend?� Ladies, do your guys need a class?� Do you want them to attend the classes we offer?
