In Ask Babeland, real Babeland Sex Educators provide real answers to real questions that they received from customers during their shifts. If one customer has this question, chances are others do too so we?re bringing them to you!Q: I can't find my G-Spot, am I broken?A: The short answer is not at all. Here's the long answer: everyone's body is a little bit different so your G-Spot might be in a slightly different place or feel slightly different when it's stimulated than descriptions you've read. Additionally, sometimes people think they're looking in the right place, but they aren't. to make sure you're on the right track try the following:1. Go to the bathroom first2. Get really aroused, maybe have an orgasm3. Insert your fingers or a
toy 1-2 inches inside the vaginal canal4. Angle your fingers or the toy towards your belly button (the front of your body)5. Rub your fingers or the toy back and forth and experiment with different pressuresIf you've found it, you should feel either a pleasurable sensation and you may also feel like you have to go to the bathroom - this is a really good sign that you're there!For more information, check out the
Smart Girls Guide to the G-Spot, the
G-Spot Center website or one of our
workshops!Lastly, it's important to remember that while some people may think that fireworks are going off when they find their G-Spot, that's not going to be the case for everyone. Some people love to have their ears nibbled on while other people hate it - the same goes for the G-Spot. So, when you find it, if it still isn't everything you imagined it would be, that still doesn't mean you're broken, it just means your body is different.