Unsatisfied
Dear Rachel and Claire,
I'm sure you don't get too many emails from guys, but I thought you might be able to help me out with my little dilemma. You see, my girlfriend and I broke up for mutual reasons last month, and lately I have been extremely horny. I love to masturbate and watch hardcore porn, but alas, this is becoming a little old (I never thought I would say this). I'm not ready for the commitment of a significant other again yet, but I want to be "involved" with someone else. My best friend, also a guy, has been slightly turning me on lately. I do not want his body, but I want to masturbate with him. Just have a mutual masturbation session. Do you have any ideas as to how I can approach this with him? Is this even a good idea? I don't think he would expect it in a million years, but I have a feeling he would be okay with it. I would like to somehow incorporate porn, lube, and perhaps a masturbation sleeve!?! Any suggestions? Please let me know, I have been sooooo horny and desperate, and would love and appreciate some of your advice.
In despair,
Unsatisfied
A:
Dear Unsatisfied: Sounds like a good idea to me. If you enjoy it, and he does too, it could be a nice way to make your sex life more exciting without the pressure of a “significant other.”You could try just asking him, maybe he’ll go for it. If you think that your buddy might react badly to a straightforward proposition, you may have better luck seducing him. Get him over to your place to watch porn. Once you’re both there getting turned on, wishing you could touch yourselves, and in the mood to masturbate, it’ll be easier to get him to do it. Remember the motto, “Fortune Favors the Brave” and boldly reach for your crotch. Tell him you think it would be hot for you to jerk off together and see if he agrees. If so, see where it goes, and if it feels right, whip out the masturbation sleeve!
If not, with a little online research you can probably find j/o friends and parties in your area. Some of the men involved will be gay, and others, like you, want a buddy to masturbate with while expecting their more intimate relationships in their lives to be with women. Good Luck!
