Help! My Fiance is Bored with Sex!

Dear Rachel and Claire,

My fiance and I are going through a rough patch in our sex life. It used to be so wild and fun but now it has gotten boring and bland. We're into the S&M but he's bored with that too. He's been around the block more than I have and with more interesting people too. I have some experience but the men I have been with have been "traditonal". Please give me some wild sex advice so I can save my relationship.

-Need a New Trick

A:

Dear Need a New Trick,

Your boyfriend needs to step up, it’s not just your job to save the relationship. The way you describe your and his past lovers makes it sound like it’s somehow your fault that things have slowed down. Usually people with experience relish introducing a novice to all the evil tricks they’ve mastered. So what’s with Mr. Bored? If he’s so over it, what does he suggest doing that would turn him on? If he won’t come up with something, my wild sex advice is explore one of your fantasies. If he’s just bored by it, then he’s a dick, and not in a good way.